Ashes to ashes... to green shoot: A better way to dispose of one's remains
One learns in biology that earth without decayed matter will not sustain plant growth; and since animal growth is dependent upon plant growth, then earth that contains not death will not sustain any kind of life.
One learns in biology that earth without decayed matter will not sustain plant growth; and since animal growth is dependent upon plant growth, then earth that contains not death will not sustain any kind of life.
When I learned this, I recalled learning earlier in school that American Indians put a fish in the hill of corn to fertilize the corn. And the logic of that led to the question of why not put a human corpse in a hill of, say, an apple tree or an oak, to fertilize it. I certainly posed it to myself, for I knew enough of the world not to shock it with such a suggestion.
Further, I thought of the Egyptians and how they disposed of royal corpses: the mummification and the enormous expense of human labor to build mausoleums to house the preserved remains. How ridiculous, how wasteful, how unnatural, I thought, to move mountains, so to speak, to bury a body that by nature's mandate should be better planted at the foot of a tree to decay and then to rise to its leaves or in a rose garden to color a bloom.
Then, of course, it occurred to me that man today is doing just the same as the Egyptians and their predecessors did thousands of years ago: He still mummifies the body of the dead, still encases it in a costly coffin and wraps that in a water-proof copper container and maybe that in an earthquake-proof mausoleum - maybe not so great as a pyramid, but often in imitation thereof. And then he leaves this monstrosity to nature for her to spend millennia digesting and resolving it all to a natural state and thus eventually getting to the remains to put them back into circulation. How frustrated Mother Nature must be by all these funereal obstacles to her cosmic conversions.
Why have hillside cemeteries with their Hong Kong flowers coloring them obscenely in December? Why have the good land loaded with granite quarried in Vermont, when a better way would be to cremate the dead and deposit the remains where a tree is simultaneously planted? Thus, in time there would be a forest or an orchard or both. And the dead would be living and the living would be shaded and nurtured by them.
In this manner, man could for once be working in harmony with nature instead of at odds with her. And to work with nature instead of against her is surely a proposition worthy of consideration, particularly when by such partnership one gone can soon return to life in any number of living varieties.
Lately, I learned to my utter delight that this concept that I had so long kept to myself was conceived a century ago by Thomas Hardy, my frequent companion and source of solace, and that he put the thought into a poem called "Transformations":
Portions of this yew
Is a man my grandsire knew,
Bosomed here at its foot:
This branch may be his wife,
A ruddy human life
Now turned to green shoot.
These grasses must be made
Of her who often prayed,
Last century, for repose;
One learns in biology that earth without decayed matter will not sustain plant growth; and since animal growth is dependent upon plant growth, then earth that contains not death will not sustain any kind of life.
When I learned this, I recalled learning earlier in school that American Indians put a fish in the hill of corn to fertilize the corn. And the logic of that led to the question of why not put a human corpse in a hill of, say, an apple tree or an oak, to fertilize it. I certainly posed it to myself, for I knew enough of the world not to shock it with such a suggestion.
Further, I thought of the Egyptians and how they disposed of royal corpses: the mummification and the enormous expense of human labor to build mausoleums to house the preserved remains. How ridiculous, how wasteful, how unnatural, I thought, to move mountains, so to speak, to bury a body that by nature's mandate should be better planted at the foot of a tree to decay and then to rise to its leaves or in a rose garden to color a bloom.
Then, of course, it occurred to me that man today is doing just the same as the Egyptians and their predecessors did thousands of years ago: He still mummifies the body of the dead, still encases it in a costly coffin and wraps that in a water-proof copper container and maybe that in an earthquake-proof mausoleum - maybe not so great as a pyramid, but often in imitation thereof. And then he leaves this monstrosity to nature for her to spend millennia digesting and resolving it all to a natural state and thus eventually getting to the remains to put them back into circulation. How frustrated Mother Nature must be by all these funereal obstacles to her cosmic conversions.
Why have hillside cemeteries with their Hong Kong flowers coloring them obscenely in December? Why have the good land loaded with granite quarried in Vermont, when a better way would be to cremate the dead and deposit the remains where a tree is simultaneously planted? Thus, in time there would be a forest or an orchard or both. And the dead would be living and the living would be shaded and nurtured by them.
In this manner, man could for once be working in harmony with nature instead of at odds with her. And to work with nature instead of against her is surely a proposition worthy of consideration, particularly when by such partnership one gone can soon return to life in any number of living varieties.
Lately, I learned to my utter delight that this concept that I had so long kept to myself was conceived a century ago by Thomas Hardy, my frequent companion and source of solace, and that he put the thought into a poem called "Transformations":
Portions of this yew
Is a man my grandsire knew,
Bosomed here at its foot:
This branch may be his wife,
A ruddy human life
Now turned to green shoot.
These grasses must be made
Of her who often prayed,
Last century, for repose;
And the fair girl long ago
Whom I often tried to know
May be entering this rose.
So, they are not underground,
But as nerves and veins abound
In the growths of upper air,
And they feel the sun and rain,
And the energy again
That made them what they were!
When I consider all the emotional, commercial and religious voices that would howl in opposition to proposals regarding the disposition of corpses, I concede that the irrational method now employed will continue another thousand years without major change, even though the price of conventional disposal of the dead now is an amount third to house and car.
Yet, fortunately, as of now at least, I can direct the manner of the disposition of my remains however I see fit with reasonable certainty that my wishes will be honored, so long as they violate no law, of course. I have directed every one who might have a say the way in which nature gets my spent self.
Ashes to ashes and dust to dust will literally be the manner. Cremation is the only sensible method of disposition. All rot is slow fire. So why not speed the rotting up and have in a pot the residue to place, plant, pour wherever one has in life picked out.
And have the choice to return soon to a green shoot of one's favorite plant or to grass where cattle graze or to a rose garden to redden more brightly the bud.
Graves are forgotten and abandoned. Memories fade and go blank, and the dead sooner or later move into the past's abyss - say, after another ice age or a global heat wave - beyond memory, care or concern of the folk who follow. So memorials are in the long run doomed to debris. But so long as the sun comes up, the chances are great that plants and trees will thrive and that one long gone will reside in one or more of them; and such an eventuality is monument and immortality enough.
Then, one can point to a tree at random and say with some credibility: "Portion of this yew / Is a man my grandsire knew."
Mann is a lawyer and gardener who lives in Hinton.
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